
The America public is gullible, The US government, liars and, therefore folks, I’m HATIN’
The guy sitting in the row in front of these two....he's on Facebook, and the guy behind Hennessy is checking out the baseball scores.
And these are the folks that couldn't get the budget out by Oct. 1. The same ones in control of your health care, cap and trade, etc. This is how they spend one of their 3-DAY WORK WEEKS that we all pay for (salary is about $179,000 per year, per person).
Certifiably HATIN'
I’ve been struggling with this post for some time now and am not so sure how to capture all of my anger, frustration and general confusion over the subject except to say, we are being stupefied by technology and are too dumb to know or care about it. And for that, my friends, I’m HATIN.’
I’ll try to make this post short and sweet seeing that, through research, I found out that most Americans, teen aged through adult years, only have a span of about 8 seconds for focused attention… 20 minutes for sustained attention, which is the level of attention that produces consistent results on a task over time… like reading this blog.
Technology is a double-edged sword. It is great in that it fuels the progression of our society, makes life easier through use of machines and devices and creates an air of possibility, posing the question of “what will they think of next?” But we have to ask ourselves, at what cost will all of this have on future generations.
Today’s millennials, also known as the “Google Generation,” are most at risk. In reading over a dozen articles/news stories about this topic, one conclusion is clear; today’s youth don’t know the basics of what most of us know (or should know). Now, I hear you asking, ‘well, what exactly don’t they know?’, so I’ve created a list of daily “do’s” that today’s teens should be familiar with, but aren’t. If you are a teenager and are reading this blog, I, a) want to applaud your attention skills, and b) implore you to review this list and rate yourself honestly against it. Today’s kids don’t know (and probably will never learn) how to:
And this is just the tip of the iceberg.
The problem really lies in the fact that technology has increased our response time to sending and receiving information and data, accounting for our decreased attention span, while also creating a world of distractions.
Even as I write this, I have my Facebook and Twitter pages up, have answered at least 3 text messages and checked incoming email from two different accounts.
Another adverse effect of technology is social interaction. I wholeheartedly believe that technology is the main cause for the increase in school violence and teen suicides.
Let’s face it, in this era of “Twitter Thugs,” (See I’m HATIN’ The Biggest Black Shames of 2010 post) instant digital video recordings and being able to bash/bad talk “friends,” classmates and peers with 140-characters or less, our kids have not had to deal with actual, face-to-face confrontation.
I find it hilarious that the media portrays bullying as this brand new phenomenon. It’s not. Grade and high schools have been hot beds for bulling since the beginning of time. I can say, with almost 100% certainty, that everyone, at some point in time, has been bullied. Maybe not beat up, but made fun of or talked about in some way. Right or wrong (mostly just wrong) it’s a part of growing up. But today’s kids don’t know how to handle bullying. With so many outlets, like Facebook, Twitter, MySpace and YouTube, used to bash and bully people, I don’t know if I’d be able to handle it either.
Today’s youth have, on average, 387 Facebook “friends.” Not REAL friends. They spend more time alone, in their rooms, connecting with people digitally as opposed to sitting, face-to-face, conversing. If they only know how to communicate online, why does it shock us that they deal with confrontation online? Technology has made speaking to one another passé; you want to talk to a teenager today? Text them. Facebook them. Mention them in a tweet.
I cannot solely blame technology for our new-found stupidity; we are also to blame. We need to set boundaries and limitations as it relates to our use of technological devices. We must not be afraid to turn off our cell phones, mobile apps, iPad’s, Facebook and Twitter. The digital world will continue on without us. And I’m not saying, go cold turkey, but if your teenage kid is spending 6 hours a day on social media and internet sites or playing Xbox, unless otherwise doing homework, give them three hours, shut everything off and tell them to go outside or read a book… you know, that bound, 4 x 7 inch paperback instrument with words.
HATIN’: JLChapple Tested and Approved
Male dominated business is typically authoritative in nature, brash and competitive and tends to stifle creativity and collaboration- undesirable for the post-recession business model.
WINNING Because Failure is Not an Option- The Most Important SHE Thang
Women have been undervalued, underpaid and underutilized in business since its very beginning. As a result, women have had to adapt, show strength and ability, and in many cases work twice as hard as their male counterparts to be recognized as an asset.
A 2007 MSNBC.com survey suggests that one of the most damning obstacles blocking women from the boardroom is negative attitudes about women leaders — attitudes women themselves still harbor.
“One cannot live in a sexist society without absorbing some of those messages, which make women feel worse about themselves and suspicious of other women," said Janet Lever, a professor of sociology at California State University in Los Angeles, who helped conceive the survey. "The enemy is omnipresent cultural messages, not women themselves."
“It’s all about preconceived notions of the leader image,” says Claire Babrowski, the former CEO of RadioShack. “When people close their eyes and visualize the top dogs sitting around the corporate table,” she explains, “We picture men in leadership roles. As a woman you already have this hurdle to overcome.”
But we DO overcome. With more than 10 million female-owned businesses, more than 66 million women employed in the United States and by recently surpassing men and becoming the majority of the workforce for the first time in our country’s history, we continue to show and prove.
Like I said, it’s a SHE Thang!
From the breed-winner perspective, I can see how shelling out millions of dollars to your ex is not ideal. Did your other half put in the long hours at the office? Were they shooting the baskets and winning the games, unbeknownst to you? Did your spouse experience every hi and low that was associated with your climb to fame? It’s hard to say.
But, I also see the homemaker’s side. Kids don’t raise themselves. Long hours, in one way or another, takes a toll on them too. No, he/she didn’t exactly make the shots or produce the films, but comforting you when things weren’t going right or selling first copies of your CD’s out of the trunk of their Toyota Tercell still constitutes as work.
Personally, I like to look at marriage like a business deal/transaction because that’s precisely what it is. Remove the love and religious implications and ultimately what you have is a contract between two individuals; one that states what both parties are allowed to do and not do. The way I see it, when the contract ends both individuals should split the assets acquired together, equally and leave the union with whatever they had separately, prior to marriage. In the case of either party breaking or not fulfilling the contract, i.e. infidelity, violence, deception, etc., than the party who committed the infraction is at fault and should be held liable. It’s like when you break your cell phone contract and are forced to pay a cancellation fee, maybe there should be a marriage cancellation fee, minimal not in millions.
I think lawyers and disgruntled exes have gone too far in demanding financial retribution. When we start petitioning for money to maintain or “upkeep lifestyle,” monthly child support that rivals the cost of brand new sports cars and alimony in excess, we move past ending things amicably and begin to show traits of greed and entitlement.
If we look at other countries around the globe, many cultures and societies still consider divorce taboo and rarely allow it. In Ghana, for example, if two people decide to divorce, it means that both the man and woman have failed and brought shame to their respective families. And in Bali, Indonesia, as many of us learned through the novel and movie Eat Pray Love, the woman has absolutely no rights in the divorce proceedings and receives nothing, not even the children, once the union is dissolved.
The solution to this issue of how much is too much, as I see it, falls within the creation of a simple formula to assess just how much one should be awarded in a divorce settlement.
Judges should take into consideration the following marital attributes, prior to rendering their decisions:
Now, I’m no mathematician, so figuring out the numerical/monetary values associated with the listed attributes and developing a Theorem of Love and Marriage is not my job, but ultimately you should arrive at a fair and decent number, in which both parties can live and be comfortable with.
Because if the roles were reversed and, let’s just say for sake of argument, your ex is now in the poor house, would we be so quick to demand half of his debt? Half of his repossessed car, truck or foreclosed home?
I don’t think so.
Twitter Thugin… Something to LEAVE behind in 2010.
The NAACP
Many fights, not many wins.
This year, under the leadership of president Ben Jealous, the NAACP has engaged in many battles and wars against injustice and civil rights, but have very little to show for their efforts. Most notably, their battle with the Tea Party and in the case of Shirley Sherrod, the NAACP is getting further away from the national advocacy powerhouse that it used to be.
In July, the civil rights organization came out swinging against the far right Tea Party, filing a resolution condemning its racist factions. NAACP made claims that the Tea Party was responsible for promoting bigotry as well as calling African-American congressmen obscene names. Tea Party leaders weren't fazed, however, with Sarah Palin denouncing the claims as "typical divisive politics."
Not long after the NAACP accused the Tea Party of harboring racists, conservative blogger, Andrew Breitbart, fired back by posting a video excerpt from a NAACP meeting in which Shirley Sherrod, an African-American employee at the U.S. Department of Agriculture, appeared to describe how she had racially discriminated against a white farmer — as the audience nodded approvingly.
Good Evening Family, Friends, Colleagues and Faithful Haters,
I hope everyone is enjoying the holiday, snow and days off.
I write today with good news about my blog, I'M HATIN'. It was recently picked up by NV Magazine, a national, bi-monthly
business magazine for urban professionals, entrepreneurs and forward thinkers. As a new columnist for NV, my rants and raves will be featured in their NV NCorrect section of the magazine and it's website, dishing out my opinions and unique views (HATIN' style, of course) on current events and topics of interest.
Check out my first blog post/column below or by following the link to NV's website:
http://www.nvmagazine.com/index.php?option=com_idoblog&task=viewpost&id=308&Itemid=0
I want to thank everyone for their continued support, blog ideas and following of the blog, it's appreciated more than you know.
Sincerely Yours,
Jennifer Chapple
Keep On HATIN'
I’M HATIN’: Because Black Business Enthusiast Aren’t Playing with a Full Deck... Just Race Cards
Black business, white business, Asian
or Hispanic; The younger generation of business leaders and executives only see one color… GREEN.
*Insert infamous “Love of Money”, Pink Floyd lyrics here*
Let me preface this column/blog post by saying I work for a black-owned business. So, theoretically, I wholeheartedly believe in the usefulness and need for black-owned companies and enterprises, seeing that that’s where my proverbial “bread and butter” comes from. But, in this ever-evolving world we live in and with the emergence and adoption of the “post-racial society” concept, it’s understandable that businesses and consumers, alike, find no REAL reason to think black... especially over mainstream or other minority groups, for as far as the new America is concerned, race and color are a non-issue.
This fact doesn’t make buying black a racial issue, but an evolution issue and your confusion of the two, Black Business Enthusiast (BBE), is why I’m HATIN’.
There are a few reasons, from what I can gather, why black-owned companies are struggling for support and receiving very little consumer and business cooperation or attention, including:
Let’s break this down, shall we?
First let’s begin with the definition of a black-owned business and the argument for keeping black money in black hands.
A working definition of a black-owned business is a proprietorship, partnership, corporation or joint-venture that is 51% owned, operated and controlled by United States citizens who are members of the African American racial group. Ownership is defined as the owner of record having control of 51% or more of the company's voting shares, and control of the day-to-day operations.
Preliminary Estimates of Business Ownership by Gender, Ethnicity, Race and Veteran Status: 2007, from the U.S. Census Bureau's 2007 Survey of Business Owners found that there were approximately 1.9 million black-owned businesses in 2007, up 60.5 percent from 2002. Receipts of these businesses totaled $137.4 billion, up 55.1 percent from 2002.
In 2007, 37.6 percent of black-owned businesses were in health care and social assistance, repair and maintenance, and personal and laundry services.
Now that we understand more about black business, let’s examine the black consumer.
Target Market News estimates the African-American population of the U.S. at 41.1 million, with a buying/spending power of $803 billion (2008). The top five expenditure categories, in which African Americans most frequently purchase, include, Housing ($166.3 billion), Food ($65.3 billion), Cars/Trucks ($31.5 billion), Clothing ($26.9 billion) and Health Care ($23.9 billion). With a spending power like this, it’s no wonder why BBE’s want to keep black money within black communities. Intent is admirable, at best, but execution is all wrong.
As I stated above, the concept of race in the business place has changed, and if black-owned companies want to compete, not just for black dollars but everyone’s business, it will have to evolve its business model and practices. This is evident in the decision of fast food conglomerate, Burger King’s recent move to pare down its marketing and advertising assignments, officially letting go UniWorld Group, the agency of record for its African-American branding efforts, and LatinWorks, agency of record for Hispanic marketing. Myself, columnist from the New York Times and Wall Street Journal all agree that this change within the company is indicative of a trend that has taken off, full-speed, as younger consumers, who are often less likely to use traditional labels of race and ethnicity, have become more of a force in the marketplace and in terms of spending power. As a result, advertisers are folding minority departments into their own organizations or only accepting bids from companies who appear diverse.
Mike Kappitt, chief marketing officer, Burger King North America, said that the company was making the change “based on where our consumer is” and particularly when considering “the X and Y generations” and their beliefs in the “melting pot.”
To add salt to the wound, Burger King also announced that it intended to have its African-American ads be created by Wunderman (a white firm, who has been their agency of record for “mainstream” advertising) and its Hispanic advertising done by Crispin Porter & Bogusky (yup, you guessed it... also white).
Of course, black business owners were outraged.
Janice L. Mathis, vice president and counsel, Rainbow PUSH Coalition, said "the remarks attributed to Burger King's chief marketing officer, Mike Kapitt are so inappropriate that we believe there must be a better explanation of the company's recent advertising decisions."
Mathis went on to say, "There is something deeply troubling about the assumption that white agencies can communicate with everyone and black and brown agencies can communicate only with racial and ethnic minority customers. If there was going to be a change, minority-owned agencies should have been invited to compete for the general market business.
Is it fair for Burger King to change firms... YES. It’s their money and they can do with it, what they see fit.
Do black business owners have a right to be upset? Sure. But, it doesn’t alter the fact that they are being put out of business as a result of being pigeonholed to a niche market, and instead of crying about the loss of a contract should be figuring out their competitive advantage in the new marketplace.
Moving on...
Our second issue pertains to black-owned firms, which, after becoming popular and profitable, do not retain its black-ownership status. This is where we talk about the sell-outs. Below, I pulled up a short list of well known, formerly black-owned companies that are now corporate subsidiaries.
Visit the Atlanta Post online for more information about the mergers listed above. Link: http://atlantapost.com/2010/07/07/7-businesses-that-went-from-black-owned-to-corporate-subsidiaries/7/
I ask, to my BBE’s, are we to still continue patronage of these companies? What about companies who are black-owned but not black operated? The definition I gave above clearly added the operational element to the argument. Are these companies worthy of conducting business with or should we outcast them to the mainstream and away from our niche?
My biggest complaint with those who take the pro opinion on this subject is how do we ever know/designate if a company is “black enough.”
This leads me into my last and final point regarding African Americans not being trained and educated to support their own, both as consumers and business entities.
It’s the long-heard tale about crabs in a barrel; the cyclical event where one tries to climb to the top and is pulled down by the others.
We, as African American people, do NOT encourage self-preservation. We do not effectively initiate our own “buy local/buy black” initiatives. We tend to go to everyone else for everything we need, specific to our lifestyle. And worse, if ever scorned by an African-American business owner/vendor, vow to never do business with anyone of our race, ever again. EVER!
This is a problem and I suggest that my black business enthusiast get behind the root of this issue as opposed to trying to put out fires, everywhere, caused by elements out of their control.
Power to the HATIN’